SCOTUS strikes down DOMA? What if I finally have the right to marry the person I love? It's a thrilling time in the gayborhood.
My marriage doesn't have to look like your marriage. My marriage is MY marriage. In the end the only thing that matters are the relationships you have with the ones you love. Nothing else matters. If we focus on love, compassion, kindness, and equality, then I think it's easy to see the silliness of DOMA.
And for those who don't want to repeal DOMA: remind me how my marriage affects your marriage?