I'm okay with mega church pastor Joel Osteen calling homosexuality a sin as he did on CNN's Piers Morgan Tonight show. I'm not a member of his church. His beliefs and words have no power over my life. Plus, I think people should have the freedom to believe whatever they want.
I'm not okay with a state government banning the recognition of marriage between to individuals that are the same gender: "Today an Iowa House subcommittee will begin the process of amending the state’s constitution to ban all legal recognition of same-sex relationships..." The laws of a state have power over all citizens- even the gay ones! The majority (heteros) can always write laws to restrict the rights of the minority (homos). It's not right.