To get ready for Halloween, my husband and I purchased the variety package of chocolate candy. For fun, in between trick-or-treaters, we independently ranked in order of favorites to least favorite the candy in the variety package.
If you look at the above photo on the top row I've ranked my favorite to least favorite candy, and on the second row my husband ranked his favorite to least favorite candy. I find it interesting that three of my top four choices are his least favorite; notice the large gap between the Milky Way and his bottom three. I suppose that makes us a good match? I will never have competition for Reese's, Almond Joy or Peanut M&M from my husband. Opposites attract?
On Halloween night we were invited to a epic costume party with hundreds of people in attendance. It was an open bar with a DJ. I did not want to go. I had a hard stressful week at work and I wanted to stay at home and decompress, and I'm not really in to large parties. My husband really wanted to go because he's the fun one in our marriage - so we went. (Opposites attract.) It was a last minute invitation, which means we didn't have time for an innovative costume. We went as baseball players - a catcher and a pitcher - so many straight guys and girls thought our costume was hilarious. People wanted us in their photos.
In the end, the party/the night was a lot of fun. I'm so glad my husband prodded me along on Friday night to join in on life. Plus, I took a lot of my stress out on the dance floor with my white guy dance moves. Watch out!
It's true what they say, "life begins where your comfort level ends..." My husband makes me a more interesting person. My first response to a new situation is always, NO!, but my husband turns my "no's" into "yeses," which is why I love him (need him)!
Sunday, November 2, 2014
Friday, October 31, 2014
QOTD
"...While I have never denied my sexuality, I haven’t publicly acknowledged it either, until now. So let me be clear: I’m proud to be gay, and I consider being gay among the greatest gifts God has given me.
"Being gay has given me a deeper understanding of what it means to be in the minority and provided a window into the challenges that people in other minority groups deal with every day. It’s made me more empathetic, which has led to a richer life. It’s been tough and uncomfortable at times, but it has given me the confidence to be myself, to follow my own path, and to rise above adversity and bigotry. It’s also given me the skin of a rhinoceros, which comes in handy when you’re the CEO of Apple.
"The world has changed so much since I was a kid. America is moving toward marriage equality, and the public figures who have bravely come out have helped change perceptions and made our culture more tolerant. Still, there are laws on the books in a majority of states that allow employers to fire people based solely on their sexual orientation. There are many places where landlords can evict tenants for being gay, or where we can be barred from visiting sick partners and sharing in their legacies. Countless people, particularly kids, face fear and abuse every day because of their sexual orientation.
"I don’t consider myself an activist, but I realize how much I’ve benefited from the sacrifice of others. So if hearing that the CEO of Apple is gay can help someone struggling to come to terms with who he or she is, or bring comfort to anyone who feels alone, or inspire people to insist on their equality, then it’s worth the trade-off with my own privacy.
"I’ll admit that this wasn’t an easy choice. Privacy remains important to me, and I’d like to hold on to a small amount of it. I’ve made Apple my life’s work, and I will continue to spend virtually all of my waking time focused on being the best CEO I can be. That’s what our employees deserve—and our customers, developers, shareholders, and supplier partners deserve it, too. Part of social progress is understanding that a person is not defined only by one’s sexuality, race, or gender. I’m an engineer, an uncle, a nature lover, a fitness nut, a son of the South, a sports fanatic, and many other things. I hope that people will respect my desire to focus on the things I’m best suited for and the work that brings me joy.
"The company I am so fortunate to lead has long advocated for human rights and equality for all. We’ve taken a strong stand in support of a workplace equality bill before Congress, just as we stood for marriage equality in our home state of California. And we spoke up in Arizona when that state’s legislature passed a discriminatory bill targeting the gay community. We’ll continue to fight for our values, and I believe that any CEO of this incredible company, regardless of race, gender, or sexual orientation, would do the same. And I will personally continue to advocate for equality for all people until my toes point up.
"When I arrive in my office each morning, I’m greeted by framed photos of Dr. King and Robert F. Kennedy. I don’t pretend that writing this puts me in their league. All it does is allow me to look at those pictures and know that I’m doing my part, however small, to help others. We pave the sunlit path toward justice together, brick by brick. This is my brick."
- Tim Cook CEO of Apple
Wednesday, October 29, 2014
How'd we get here?
Long time readers of this blog know my husband and I are slowly and surely moving towards fatherhood. There's no baby in the works, but we're lining things up. The environment in which we will be raising our future children in is very different from the environment I was raised in, which bothers me a bit.
For example, most of our friends with children have help from a nanny. I understand if you have two careers and you need weekday help from a nanny, but we have friends that are in single income households and they too have help from a nanny. We went to a barbecue two Saturdays ago and one family showed up: mother, father, children, and the nanny.
Another example, we were asking our friends in the 'sac how much candy we need to buy to get ready for Halloween, and our friend told us to buy lots of candy because our neighborhood is visited by lots of (she switched to a whisper:) "apartment kids." She went on to tell a sweet story about a kid knocking on her door at 8 PM last year excited that her porch light was still on because his mom just got home from work and everyone else had stopped handing out candy. Our friend emptied her candy bowl into his sack.
Our bubble is full of kind and generous friends. No one is being mean, but the environment is unrecognizable from the environment I grew up in...part of me wants to sell out and move back to my hometown to raise our children. That's not really going to happen, which means I will need to need to poke holes in our bubble. I want my kids to know that kids who live in apartments should not be labeled "apartment kids."
Now I know why my father always made me work the hottest hardest jobs in the summers growing up.
For example, most of our friends with children have help from a nanny. I understand if you have two careers and you need weekday help from a nanny, but we have friends that are in single income households and they too have help from a nanny. We went to a barbecue two Saturdays ago and one family showed up: mother, father, children, and the nanny.
Another example, we were asking our friends in the 'sac how much candy we need to buy to get ready for Halloween, and our friend told us to buy lots of candy because our neighborhood is visited by lots of (she switched to a whisper:) "apartment kids." She went on to tell a sweet story about a kid knocking on her door at 8 PM last year excited that her porch light was still on because his mom just got home from work and everyone else had stopped handing out candy. Our friend emptied her candy bowl into his sack.
Our bubble is full of kind and generous friends. No one is being mean, but the environment is unrecognizable from the environment I grew up in...part of me wants to sell out and move back to my hometown to raise our children. That's not really going to happen, which means I will need to need to poke holes in our bubble. I want my kids to know that kids who live in apartments should not be labeled "apartment kids."
Now I know why my father always made me work the hottest hardest jobs in the summers growing up.
Monday, October 27, 2014
QOTD
From The Telegraph interview with pop star Ariana Grande.
"Grande was raised a Catholic, but in adolescence began questioning her faith out of love and support for her brother, who is gay. ‘When my brother was told that God didn’t love him I was like, “OK, that’s not cool.” They were building a Kabbalah centre in Florida so we both checked it out and really had a connection with it.’
"The Kabbalah movement – Madonna is its most high-profile adherent – ‘sort of stuck with me. And since then my life has unfolded in a really beautiful way, and I think that it has a lot to do with the tools I’ve learnt through Kabbalah, I really do.’
"Grande was raised a Catholic, but in adolescence began questioning her faith out of love and support for her brother, who is gay. ‘When my brother was told that God didn’t love him I was like, “OK, that’s not cool.” They were building a Kabbalah centre in Florida so we both checked it out and really had a connection with it.’
"The Kabbalah movement – Madonna is its most high-profile adherent – ‘sort of stuck with me. And since then my life has unfolded in a really beautiful way, and I think that it has a lot to do with the tools I’ve learnt through Kabbalah, I really do.’
Creamed Spinach
This weekend I decided I need a go-to creamed spinach recipe in my wheel house. This weekend I made Martha Stewart's recipe, which was Big Martha's recipe.
It was okay but not great. It was very simple. I think I need one with more flavor - like cheese! The research continues. (If you have a creamed spinach recipe you love, then email it to me.)
My husband grilled the best steak this weekend. I like my steak like I like my tuna - seared. I usually don't like to eat steaks outside of fine dinning restaurants, because it's hard for home cooks to serve a rare piece of meat.
This weekend we also perfected our baked potato recipe. My mother said the key to a good baked potato is high heat - 475 degrees. My husband said the key to a good baked potato is to wash it and roll it in salt before you bake it. When you put my mother's and my husband's skills together, then you have the best potato! I ate the skin and all.
In a few weeks we're hosting family for my father's 61st birthday - I'm testing these recipes to create a menu for the group.
Monday, October 20, 2014
Birthday Weekend
My husband's mother had a birthday this weekend. Since she looks so youthful and acts so youthful we decided it was more fun to celebrate her 46th birthday. Yes, she turned 46, which means she was 12 when she had my husband and 8 when she had my husband's sister- don't worry about the details! It was a party!
My husband's parents are headed on a three week vacation in New Zealand with their life long best friends, and they've signed up for a 12 mile hike to get to a 5 star hotel. The hike is supposed to be spectacular. I am really looking forward to seeing the pictures. Now does a 12 mile hike seem like something a 64 year old would sign up for? No. It sounds like something a 46 year old would sign up for.
The key takeaway: in order to be young you have to act young! Have a fun trip!
My husband's parents are headed on a three week vacation in New Zealand with their life long best friends, and they've signed up for a 12 mile hike to get to a 5 star hotel. The hike is supposed to be spectacular. I am really looking forward to seeing the pictures. Now does a 12 mile hike seem like something a 64 year old would sign up for? No. It sounds like something a 46 year old would sign up for.
The key takeaway: in order to be young you have to act young! Have a fun trip!
Wedding Weekend
My husband and I had the best weekend at Dave and Myranda's wedding. We were ushers in their wedding - and we dominated. We had the job of opening the giant wooden doors so the bride and her father could make a grand entrance into the chapel. It was awesome because as we flung the doors open my husband said something that made the bride laugh and I played off my husband- later at the reception she said she was so nervous until she saw us and we made her laugh.
The key takeaway is that in life you should always laugh!
The key takeaway is that in life you should always laugh!
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